Always choose happiness & Be willing to do a self check

“I will eliminate hatred, envy, jealousy, selfishness, and cynicism, by developing love for all humanity, because I know that a negative attitude toward others can never bring me success. I will cause others to believe in me, because I will believe in them, and in myself.”- Napoleon Hill

We all have experienced a Debbie or Dan Downer in a more pleasant reference...

And how their negative attitude and energy can change the vibe or mood of the atmosphere quickly. I have always pledged in my adult age to not be that person and I plead with you to do the same. Do not be that individual with a negative rebuttal for everything. It's o.k. to have an opinion because that is your prerogative but sometimes personal opinions are not needed in certain situations. If you give the advice to try to help a person see both sides, the good and the bad. I always strive to be an encourager, not a critic or "I told you so" type of individual.

Ruin in the world is caused by ignorance; 
friendships are broken off by envy and selfishness; 
the most violent fever is hatred; - Buddha

We all can agree during our current time's hatred fueled by ignorance is present in the world. Friendships and relationships are ruined by envy, jealousy, and selfishness. So be kind to others, as well, as yourself. Let's spread love not hate. Let's be a positive factor and never a negative one. This will take years of self-practice but it should definitely be a goal we are striving for.

In my personal life and life experiences, I work hard at eliminating hatred, envy, jealousy, selfishness, and cynicism. It's human nature to have these feelings but we have to be able to check ourselves at times. Because I truly believe a negative attitude towards others will never bring me success. I work hard at treating people how I want to be treated in every aspect of my life. I have always been told that hatred, envy, jealousy and other negative behaviors may very well block your own blessings by creating unnecessary drama or circumstances.

"Beware of no man more than of yourself; we carry our worst enemies within us."

Always exude self-awareness.

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